Time has always been an issue for me. I either don't feel like I have enough of it or I wish it would go faster. (I know, I know, make up yer mind. ) When the kids were all little it was hectic and out of control. The typical busy life that all moms lead. We went from chaos in the morning: everybody out of bed, breakfast fixins all over the kitchen, then flying out the door to drop the older kids off at school. Then errands, clean house, do a project or two, play and read with the little ones. Then pick up the kids from school, lessons (for us it was gymnastics), then home to fix a healthy and quick dinner. Sometimes more quick than healthy. There was always many things going on in the evenings as well. In fact when I was in the middle of it, I remember thinking, "it will be nice when all the kids are in school, maybe life will slow down alittle. HaHa. I remember hearing older and wiser moms say, "Enjoy it while they're little, they grow up way too fast!"
About 8 years ago (my baby is now 15 and my oldest just turned 23)
Then I would usually smile & say "I know, I've heard that before." One thing I have learned in my life is that you can't go back. I really do miss those children, keep in mind, I still live will all of them. The older version of them. They're still the same wonderful kids. So now that I'm an older and somewhat wiser mom, this is my advice to young mothers with small children, Enjoy "here" while you're "here", cause you can't enjoy "here" when you're "there".
In other words smile and enjoy everyday and love them, hug and kiss them, and don't worry about the things that just don't matter. They're growing every second. I am so thankful to the moms who told me to enjoy them while they're little. And most of all I'm so grateful I have had the blessing to be a mother. Love, Joy
Then I would usually smile & say "I know, I've heard that before." One thing I have learned in my life is that you can't go back. I really do miss those children, keep in mind, I still live will all of them. The older version of them. They're still the same wonderful kids. So now that I'm an older and somewhat wiser mom, this is my advice to young mothers with small children, Enjoy "here" while you're "here", cause you can't enjoy "here" when you're "there".
In other words smile and enjoy everyday and love them, hug and kiss them, and don't worry about the things that just don't matter. They're growing every second. I am so thankful to the moms who told me to enjoy them while they're little. And most of all I'm so grateful I have had the blessing to be a mother. Love, Joy
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